Dear readers,
We are certainly living in an era driven by new technologies where screen time is often the preferred time over social interactions with colleagues, friends or family members. But despite the new norm, we should never underestimate the value of social connections that help us bond with others.
Globalisation has brought a lot of diversity into our communities and workplaces, which even more highlighted the need to follow a certain code of conduct when interacting with others in a social setting.
In today’s newsletter, I will share with you top 3 rudest (according to me) etiquette mistakes to avoid in any social interaction, whether it’s formal or casual:
MISTAKE NO. 1: Speaking in a Language Not Everyone Understands
I’ve seen it too many times - in a group of friends, two people find out they speak the same native language and switch right to it, ignoring the presence of others who might not speak the language at all. As exciting as it might be to meet a fellow countryman, speaking a language that not everyone from the group understands can lead to feelings of exclusion and frustration.
Katarina's Tip: Be mindful of the group's dynamics and stick to a common language that everyone can follow, ensuring no one feels left out or alienated.
MISTAKE NO. 2: Failing to Introduce New People
This is a big one. Any conversation, even if it’s a small talk only, needs to start with a proper introduction. Just imagine talking to someone without knowing their name and something brief from their background. Bringing a newcomer into a social circle without introductions can leave them feeling awkward and out of place. It’s a simple, but often overlooked, act of courtesy to introduce new people to everyone in the group.
Katarina's Tip: A warm introduction helps break the ice and makes the person feel acknowledged, ensuring they feel welcome and included in the conversation.
MISTAKE NO. 3: Asking Invasive Personal Questions
This one is obvious, yet still repeated over and over again. While curiosity can fuel conversation, asking overly personal questions - about topics like sex, pregnancy, religion, or finances - can make others uncomfortable. Everyone has different comfort levels with sharing personal information, so it’s best to tread carefully.
Katarina's Tip: Stick to neutral, light topics unless someone voluntarily shares more private details.
Final Thought:
I am a big believer that by being aware of these etiquette missteps, we can significantly improve our social interactions. Thoughtfulness, inclusivity, and respecting boundaries are key to creating comfortable, positive environments for everyone.
So stay social, dear readers, but always with a pinch of respect.
Yours sincerely,
Katarina
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