Kindness is one of the most beautiful qualities a person can have. However, sometimes, our well-intended actions can come across as impolite or even intrusive.
Here are three common behaviours that may seem harmless but could unintentionally offend others:
1. USING NICKNAMES WITHOUT PERMISSION
It may seem friendly to shorten someone’s name - calling Victoria “Vicky” or Robert “Bobby” - but if they haven’t introduced themselves that way, it can feel overly familiar or even disrespectful. Among close friends, this might be acceptable, but in professional or formal settings, always use the name they provide until invited to do otherwise.
2. TOUCHING WITHOUT CONSENT
A spontaneous hug between friends is one thing, but touching someone without permission - such as placing a hand on their pregnant belly or running fingers through someone’s new haircut - can be uncomfortable and inappropriate. Always be mindful that personal space is, well, personal. A well-intentioned gesture of affection might be perceived as a breach of boundaries.
3. OFFERING UNSOLICITED ADVICE
Some people love helping others, but giving advice when it hasn’t been asked for can feel intrusive rather than supportive. A well-meaning suggestion may come across as criticism, even if your intent is purely helpful. Before offering your wisdom, consider asking, “Would you like my thoughts on this?” to ensure your advice is truly welcome.
The key to great etiquette is consideration. When in doubt, simply ask! Small adjustments to our behaviour can go a long way in making others feel respected and comfortable.
I wish you a beautiful day.
Your sincerely,
Katarina
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