#38 ASK KATARINA: What to Gift to an Acquaintance? 🎁

#38 ASK KATARINA: What to Gift to an Acquaintance? 🎁

''Hi Katarina, I recently got invited to a birthday party of an acquaintance of mine (woman) and I don’t know what gift to bring. Any ideas?''
F. D.


Dear F. D.,
thank you for your question!

Choosing the perfect gift for a female acquaintance can feel tricky, but with a few key considerations, you can ensure your gesture is thoughtful, appropriate, and well-received.
I fully understand that it can feel tricky to come up with the perfect idea for an acquaintance whom we don’t know that well to craft that ideal, personalised gift. Thankfully, there is a whole array of 'safe' gift options where you can never go wrong!

Before I share my list of favourite and safe gift ideas, please remember to always take into consideration the cultural background of the person you are gifting the present to.
For example, gifting a premium bottle of wine to Muslims who prefer not to drink alcohol could create an unwanted faux pas.

Katarina's List of Safe and Thoughtful Gift Ideas:

1. ICONIC BOOKS

There are some must-read titles that everyone will appreciate having in their bookshelf. Search for classics such as Pride and Prejudice, The Great Gatsby or Anna Karenina. Bonus points if you manage to find a limited edition with a premium cover design.

2. SCENTED CANDLES
A neutral gift option could be something small that adds to the cosiness of someone’s home. Scented candles add a nice and elegant touch to the atmosphere.

3. PREMIUM OLIVE OIL
My personal favourite. Unlike premium wine (that might not be enjoyed by everyone) a premium olive oil can go a long way. It is a widely used kitchen supply, but still keeps its mark of exclusivity. Search for olive oils from independent producers in nice, exclusive packaging.



These items exude elegance, practicality, and care, without crossing personal boundaries. By considering these subtle details and cultural sensitivities, you can ensure that your gift will not only be appropriate but will also leave a lasting positive impression even with acquaintances whom we don’t know that well.

I hope you will find my tips helpful!

Yours sincerely,
Katarina


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